A Year of Firsts

This is the year of many firsts for Lyla. I remember shortly after she was born, the nurses kept telling us to look for her first wet diaper. When they saw that yellow line on her newborn Pampers turn to blue they celebrated and then celebrated some more. Since then, each day has brought many other firsts, and all are constant reminders of how quickly my little girl is growing up.

She had her first car ride.

Followed by her first night at home, her first restaurant experience, her first round of visitors and her first mass.

In July she celebrated her first 4th of July, went on her first walk, met her cousin Sophia for the first time and had her first bath.

In August, she had her first play date, her first party and her first round of shots. (That was one first that was not so much fun.)

In September she went on her first plane ride, visited Pittsburgh and Kansas City for the first time, went to her first wedding, spent the night at Grandma's for the first time, met her Kratofil cousins for the first time, slept in her own room for the first time and watched her first football game (one in which her Uncle John dominated).

In October she went on her first road trip to Notre Dame, rolled over for the first time, picked out her very first pumpkin and celebrated her first Halloween.

As you can see, she was not pleased with the group shot.

And last week, she had her first bowl of rice cereal.

She was no pro. I am pretty sure she got more on herself then in her stomach, but that's fine for now. We are just in the practice stage anyway. But this first felt like a big first. I experienced the same feeling that I had when I packed up her newborn clothes: proud of my little girl for growing, and learning and doing so very well, but sad that my teeny, tiny 6 lb 10 oz baby is no more. 

I know that this first will lead to another first and that with each passing day she will grow bigger and stronger. She is rolling for now, but in no time she will be crawling, then walking, then running. I get emails about where your baby should be in terms of development each week. It tells new moms  what they should be working on with their little ones and how they should be progressing. Last week it said that at 20 weeks old Lyla should be rolling one direction, be able to lift her head when on her stomach, laugh out loud, and reach for an object. I felt an overwhelming sense of pride when I realized that not only can Lyla do all of those things, but she is dominating them. She rolls not just one direction, but both. She has been able to lift her head and hold herself up on her arms for almost two months now. She's been laughing for weeks and not only does she reach for an object, she rolls towards it, picks it up and then rolls back to where she was. My little girl is kicking butt and taking names and I am one proud mama.

With my pride though, comes nostalgia. I have loved watching Lyla learn and develop with each passing day, but time is flying and I am afraid I will blink my eyes and she'll be going to Kindergarten. (I am thinking that my husband should start preparing himself now for that day. Pretty sure I am going to be a mess.)

As these days fly by and Lyla grows bigger, I keep telling myself to cherish these times. To pause and memorize specific moments so that I will never forget. To not wish away the present, but live in the "now." And this past weekend when Lyla's Fischer aunts came to visit, I did my very best to do just that. As she laughed and played with her aunts,  I sat back and watched, trying to freeze frame each smile, each look, each moment of love. She may not stay teeny and tiny forever, but she'll always be my little girl and I want to remember every precious moment, every first. 

Lyla wanted to make a very special meal for her aunts' visit. She requested, flank steak with mushrooms, roasted coriander, chickpea and lime rice (recipe below), greek salad, bread and for dessert, peanut butter and chocolate shortbread bars (recipe below). 

Marinated the steak over night.

The mushrooms!

Greek Salad with feta, cherry tomatoes and olive dressing.

Roasted Coriander, Chickpea and Lime Rice (recipe from McCormick):

Bring 1/2 cup of jasmine rice, a bit of sea salt and 1 cup of water to a boil. Reduce heat and cook on low for 18 minutes.

In a bowl combine 2 tablespoons of olive oil, 1 tablespoon of roasted ground coriander, 2 teaspoons of lime juice and 1/4 teaspoon of sea salt. Whisk together. Add in 1 cup of halved grape tomatoes, 1/3 cup of chopped cilantro and 1/4 cup of green onions.

Add 1 can of drained and rinsed chickpeas and the cooked rice. Toss together and serve!

Peanut Butter and Chocolate Shortbread bars (recipe from Fine Cooking):

First, to make the shortbread, finely chop 1/2 cup of unsalted peanuts. In a bowl combine 7 oz of unsalted, melted butter, 1/2 cup of sugar and 1/2 teaspoon of salt. Stir in the peanuts and 9 1/2 oz of flour.

Once combined, place the mixture in a 9x13 sized pan, lined with foil. Press the dough flat into the bottom of the pan before pricking it all over with a fork.

Refrigerate for 30 minutes. Then bake the dough for 20 minutes at 325 degrees. Drop the oven temperature to 300 and bake for an additional 20 minutes. Let it cool completely.

To make the peanut butte filling, combine 1 cup of peanut butter and 3 oz of room temperature butter in a mixer. Add 3 oz of confectioners' sugar, 1 teaspoon of vanilla and 1 tablespoon of hot water. Mix until smooth. Add in another 3 oz of confectioners' sugar and another tablespoon of hot water. Mix until thick.

Spread the peanut butter mixture over the cooled crust.

In a small pot, bring 1/2 cup plus 2 tablespoons of heavy cream to a boil. Pour over 5 oz of chopped bittersweet chocolate.

Let it stand for 3 minutes before mixing.

Finally, spread the chocolate ganache over the peanut butter mixture. Let it rest for 3 hours or refrigerate until serving.

Enjoy!